one friend or a group?
I have 6 real good friends in MN. If I had to give each one word to describe them they would be: passionate, understanding, enthusiastic, random, spontaneous, and direct. I love each of these friends dearly. They are all very different people, but what they all have in common is ADVENTURE. All of my dear friends are ready for an adventure at any moment. When I say, “Let’s walk into the hockey game without a ticket.” They’ll say sure. Whether it’s late nights swimming in pools or parties with celebrities my friends are always for whatever. They are active.
Another thing about my 6 good friends in MN is that we aren’t a group of friends. All these friends I have described are friends I have my own individual relationship with. I do put these 6 people together, but they would never hang out without me present. An outsider would think they are a hodgepodge of people. We all went to MPA, but we are from 3 different years. Including myself we went to 5 different states for college, 7 different majors, and 7 different friends I call for different reasons.
Sometimes I wish I had a large group of friends. If I had a large group of friends would that mean we would always have to do everything together?
In college I have one good friend and 2 or 3 other really really close friends. Then I have a lot of other individual relationships. I don’t really have a group of friends in college either. Truthfully I don’t want to hang out with a group and have some people I can’t stand always hang around.
On the other hand if I wanted to have a party of about 20 people or so it would be easier to know who to invite.
Maybe I’m over thinking this. I like my friends and I hope my friends can be friends with one another!
